In order to start on the road to recovery and wholeness after consistently viewing pornography, it is necessary to come out of hiding. Individuals who are involved in viewing pornography must be willing to acknowledge that they have a problem and that it cannot be dealt with in secrete on their own.
For the spouse of someone viewing pornography, recognize it is natural to feel betrayed. Trust has been broken. Support and wholeness are possible if you are willing to take the steps necessary to obtain your own recovery.
Couples must commit to individual recovery as they seek to recover their marriage relationship.