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	<title>Comments on: John and I met in September</title>
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		<title>By: Miriam</title>
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		<dc:creator>Miriam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Sep 2009 17:14:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>your husband does face consequences to his acting out...most often they are internal, taking place psychologically in his mind and kept hidden from you.  typically it is his own self talk where he beats himself up and feels tremendous shame.  Those things make him dig deeper into his addiction and keeps him in the cycle. That is only one of many consequences he is experiencing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>your husband does face consequences to his acting out&#8230;most often they are internal, taking place psychologically in his mind and kept hidden from you.  typically it is his own self talk where he beats himself up and feels tremendous shame.  Those things make him dig deeper into his addiction and keeps him in the cycle. That is only one of many consequences he is experiencing.</p>
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		<title>By: Adrienne</title>
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		<dc:creator>Adrienne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2009 05:37:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You say &quot;If he did have a slip up he had 24 hours to tell me about it.&quot; or what? What would happen if he didn&#039;t tell you within 24 hours? My husband and I have been married for almost 9 years, and I stumbled upon his addiction almost 4 years ago. There are no consequences for his actions and I honestly don&#039;t know what I should do...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You say &#8220;If he did have a slip up he had 24 hours to tell me about it.&#8221; or what? What would happen if he didn&#8217;t tell you within 24 hours? My husband and I have been married for almost 9 years, and I stumbled upon his addiction almost 4 years ago. There are no consequences for his actions and I honestly don&#8217;t know what I should do&#8230;</p>
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