Straight Talk to Husbands Who Watch Porn
. . . .Shelli remembers well the day her husband John called her up to confess his secret obsession with pornography. Years of guilt, shame, and wasted time had finally taken its toll on John, and the emotional dam broke. He knew he needed to tell his wife the truth.
My husband has been a pornography addict since he was 13 years old. He struggled with this addiction all through high school. He was able to stay away from it for several years, but in our second year of marriage, while I was pregnant with our first child, the problem returned and we have struggled with it ever since.
It’s not uncommon for well-intentioned observers to inquire about the fuss being made over pornography. Many of them assume that pornography consumption is a victimless pastime. Their line of thinking generally supports the notion that a man who views pornography in isolation is not hurting anyone. They even debate the question of whether or not this same man is hurting himself by viewing pornography