Most people don’t recognize the needs of the spouse. “If my husband is in recovery, then I’ll be ok.”
This is often the feelings of the spouse and those providing support for the spouse.
How do we get God at our center?
If the addicted spouse is at the center, betrayal trauma will continue to be present.
How can learn to be honest about how we really feel? It’s ok to share how we feel.
“Be direct. Do no harm.”
“If I had not found my own recovery, even though he had been working his recovery, I believe we would be divorced today.”
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