Hopefully you have heard the exciting news that Dr. Barbara Steffens will be speaking at the S.A.Lifeline Fall Conference on September 21st, 2019. About a decade ago, Dr. Steffens’s research transformed the treatment of partners of sex addicts from a co-addict model to a trauma model. For many of us in the S.A.Lifeline community,…
Special thanks to one of the fellows in one of our Utah in-person meetings for sharing his thoughts on reaching out to others. If you’d like to contribute to the men’s discussion with your strength, hope, and experience, email us today. One of the first things people wonder about when first attending an SAL 12-Step group…
Steven & Rhyll Croshaw, founders of S.A. Lifeline Foundation, share their story of addiction, betrayal, and recovery. Learn more about what it takes to work recovery one day at a time.
Boundaries are one of the buzz words of sexual addiction recovery and therapy. And there is a good reason for that…it’s because if you don’t have boundaries in place, no matter how much therapy you pay for, how many 12 Step meetings you go to, how often you call your sponsor…you are never going to…
Last January, SA Lifeline hosted a Parent Panel at Thanksgiving Point for anyone interested in gaining more information about dealing with the problem of sexual addiction with their children. Among the presenters there, we were privileged to hear from Vauna Davis, founder and executive director of Reach 10, an organization dedicated to helping young people…
Once a month on our blog, we feature Q&A’s with Rhyll Croshaw. This content was found on Rhyll’s original site, rhyllrecovery.com, but will now be a part of our Women’s Discussion here. Thanks to Rhyll for her insights and willingness to share her strength, hope, and experience with all of us. Please let us…
Last week, in Alicia’s beautiful post entitled Manifestations of Healing, she shared her long journey toward recovery. I was struck by one of the statements she highlighted: “I wanted to flee recovery groups as much as I wanted to be in them.” I have spoken with many women who have felt the same way: “I…
I’ve heard this quite a bit in other groups: “Relapse is part of recovery…” Or… “If I pop a tire, I’m not going to go back to where I started, I’m going to fix the tire and move on.” My initial questions are these: Where do these ideas come from? Who said these things? Was…
Do people who look at pornography, even if it’s from time to time, really have a problem or even “a sexual addiction?” Is “lust addiction” a terrible, shaming label or is it something that needs to be talked about openly and honestly? What are your thoughts on these questions? Do you feel there’s a fear…
Once a month on our blog, we feature Q&A’s with Rhyll Croshaw. Thanks to Rhyll for her insights and willingness to share her strength, hope, and experience with all of us. Q: How did your family react to your disclosures? My husband and I have been in recovery quite a long time, but our children and…