When sex addiction and betrayal trauma strike, the wounds are not limited to individuals—they ripple through relationships, leaving trust shattered and bonds broken. At the 2024 S.A. Lifeline Conference, Dr. Jake Porter introduced his groundbreaking Couple-Centered Recovery Model, a framework designed to help couples heal together rather than growing apart during the recovery process. Dr.…
The holiday season can be a time of joy, togetherness, and celebration. Yet, for many in the process of healing from sex addiction or betrayal trauma, it can also bring unique challenges. We can be left feeling drained, overwhelmed, or even let down once the festivities end. This emotional rollercoaster is normal, and we are…
NOTE: This blog post contains concepts and some quotes which were taken from a 2021 S.A. Lifeline conference presentation by Dr. Stefanie Carnes. Subscribe to the Digital Recovery Library to watch the entire presentation. Understanding Betrayal Trauma Betrayal trauma isn’t just a term; it’s an experience that shakes the very foundation of one’s trust and…
Featuring Video From Dr. Jill Manning In the journey of navigating recovery from sexual compulsions/ addictions and betrayal trauma, two powerful forces often stand as pillars of support: therapy and the Twelve-Steps. While distinct in their approaches, they possess a remarkable symbiotic relationship that fosters profound healing and personal growth. Let’s explore how therapy and…
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I remember thinking that I would zoom in and out of therapy because I and my family would be healed! We can’t climb to the top of our figurative Mount Everests in a day and that’s alright.
With my tiny 8 year old (or there about) eyes squeezed shut and a hope that filled every cell of my little body, I said a prayer that sounded something like this: “Heavenly Father, I am learning about faith and I believe with every fiber of my being that you will answer this request: Please…
A Message of Hope For All Faiths By S.A. Lifeline’s Executive Director, Tara McCausland For many of us, ’tis the season of twinkling lights, warm cocoa, and the age-old question that has endured through generations: Is Santa Claus real? As a parent, navigating the delicate balance of preserving the magic of childhood and revealing the…
When life falls apart during the holidays, we can learn to cope by practicing surrender.
